Without priorities, dreams do not come true. ”(Augusto Cury)

Without priorities, dreams do not come true. ”(Augusto Cury)

"We only realize the value of water after the source dries" - Popular saying

I have already come to the conclusion that the whole of our "self" deserves to be recognized and this recognition must first come from within ourselves. “Life gives nothing without retribution and about every thing granted by fate, there is a secret price, which sooner or later must be paid.” (Stefan Zweig)
   There are people who expect the circumstances to be all perfect to start doing something, but we have to know that the circumstances will never be perfect. The path unfolds as you go along: the later we begin to make our way, the later we begin to discover things that we have to discover sooner or later. Later comes time, resources, money, people, later we will attract what we have to attract. Life is full of imperfections and people are not perfect. And I know I am not either. However, what I have learned over the years is that knowing how to accept others' failures, highlighting differences between them, is one of the most important keys to creating healthy and lasting relationships. As José Saramago said: “We go around and around, but in reality there are only two things: either you choose life or you move away from it.”
In fact what defines us and sets us apart from others is the way we rise after a fall, the time we need to breathe again, the resilience and resilience we prove to have and even hurt to choose to move on. This requires more than optimism and believing that it is possible, above all it takes courage and self-love. As Winston Churchill put it: "Courage is what we need to get up and talk, and it is also what we need to sit and listen."
So there is not much to think about. You have to think long enough to know which direction you want to go, and then make the decision and take immediate action. You can decide yes, or you can decide no, but it will always be your decision. “I made the decision to pretend that all the things that had entered my mind until then were no more true than the illusions of my dreams. (René Descartes)
 That is why we must always bear in mind that what defines and distinguishes others is how they support us, how they hold us, and how they help us fall, or, on the contrary, how they point our finger, how they repeat “I I warned you ”or how they try to push us lower when we try to get up. This requires more than friendship, empathy, generous kindness, and knowing that one day needs us, and another day we need others. Everyone misses, everyone falls, no one is immune to life's turns. “We are what we do. What is not done does not exist. Therefore, we only exist when we do. On days we don't do, we just last. ”(Father António Vieira)