“The only dreams worth talking about are those that won't let us sleep.” (Miguel Esteves Cardoso)

“The only dreams worth talking about are those that won't let us sleep.” (Miguel Esteves Cardoso)

“I think nothing happens by chance, you know? That deep down things have their secret plan, although we don't understand. ”(Carlos Ruiz Zafón)

Increasingly, in our daily lives, we are faced with changes for which we are not prepared, and where the strategies used can make the most unwary get caught up in them, not realizing that often new strategies, being penalizing for some are always beneficial for others. We cannot ignore that being reminded of important dates has its value, but it is in the small gestures of our daily lives that the great messages are transmitted. We can gain confidence within seconds with small gestures. We just cannot forget that privileges are rare and a friendship will be eternal until the first distrust arises. ”There are dreams that bury themselves, / Carry into the coffin, / Bits of our soul, / Pieces of heart! (Florbela Espanca)
Only the eyes can express the deepest feelings of the heart, and one of the surest demonstrations of our empathy and love is sharing thoughts and feelings. As someone has said to love is to want to understand what a loved one thinks, what he thinks of himself and the world we live in, and where words fail, it is comforting to know that there are many other vital and eloquent ways of communicating, trying to something new, but being nice to ourselves along the way, and realizing that we are not alone. All of us have already gone through that expressing what we feel is not easy at all and so we always learn to repress some of our feelings by keeping them to ourselves and hence our silence at certain times. As Freud said: “There are times in our lives when words lose their meaning or seem useless, and as much as we think of a way to use them they don't seem to fit. So we don't say, just sit. ”
 We all have dreams, we all have the vision of an ideal life where everything is perfect and we succeed in everything spontaneously .... Yeah! But a dream without a plan is just a wish! What every human being wants is to make their dreams come true. This is perhaps why there are moments in our lives that we wanted to express our feelings, deep down living in peace with other people, happens to many people who end up suppressing their own feelings until they develop illnesses by carrying this grudge and resentment. and never talk about it. So we are storing feelings that need to go out somehow, and usually all emotions translate into anger and / or sadness, a shadow that hides behind our apparent figure. The longer we suffer in silence, the sicker we get ... but we need to never forget, as Descartes said, "even the most perfect spirits will need to have a lot of time and attention."
Do we all need to think a little differently? What questions can allow us to lift the weight off our shoulders? How can we approach certain experiences or feelings in a new way? What stays or "sounds" in the society that surrounds us? What do you think makes no sense? What do you want to keep for yourself? Speaking of patience is not about resignation, but about resilience and determination in the certainty that our dream is real and will come true. Being resilient means being flexible but having self-confidence. Know how to learn from the attitude of others, without losing your essence, and always remain grateful for each morning that is born and open your eyes and hear from heaven: Today everything will work out! “Find the best in all. … We may have to wait a long time, sometimes years, but people will show their good side. We just have to keep waiting no matter how long it takes. Not everything in life is always so hard. Everyone has a bright side, we just have to keep hoping that it will arrive. ”(Randy Pausch