"The Universe is the Dream of an Infinite Dreamer" (Fernando Pessoa)

"The Universe is the Dream of an Infinite Dreamer" (Fernando Pessoa)

"As long as we believe in our dreams, nothing will happen by chance."
(Henfil)

It is said that dreaming is one of the most beautiful things in the world, but realizing dreams is even better! We must not and can not live only in the world of clouds, wasting part of our lives ... if dreams are the basis of everything, but it is also up to each of us to run behind and realize them, otherwise we may not have a new opportunity. "Some say that every night is a dream. But there are also those who guarantee that not all, only those of summer. Basically, this does not matter much. What really matters is not the night itself, it's the dreams. Dreams that man always dreams, everywhere, at all times of the year, whether he is sleeping or awake. "(William Shakespeare)

We come even where our greatest dreams have not come, it is said that it is only a matter of believing or not. Life is a constant resumption. Do not take for granted and move on. As someone has already said, "The stones that today hinder your walk tomorrow will grace your road." Or in the words of Jose Saramago: "We go round and round, but in reality there are only two things: either you choose life or far- hers. "

It is true that in order to enter the dynamics of life, it is first necessary to believe that it is worth living and this conviction will help us to create this fact - that life is worth living. Life can be hard, demanding, and sometimes "feels" too heavy a burden ... But if we have that conviction within us, we can transform every pain, every failure and every passing day, into an "opening "For other moments more joyful, happy and that gives us the will to live.

Sigmund Freud said that "we are made of flesh, but we must live as if we were of iron". This does not mean giving up our (human) origin, but we need a transcendent force, an intense and deep desire that makes us go beyond our limits.

As is generally the case for all families, our "dream of a family life plan" was abruptly disrupted. We will never accept to understand what has happened to us - nevertheless we know and we are fully aware that it is the cycle of life! In reality the traumatic form permanently affects us and changes us completely in the way of living and "looking" for life. This situation is somewhat frightening, because suddenly we did not see that there is something like overcoming this situation that confronts us at every moment and "incites" us to learn to accept our loss, but the reality is in fact much greater: an important break in our life, leaves a new and different person. There is no "back to the before". We're different now, period. "It's going to be all right.", "I can not fight it, I'd better get ready." Life is unique, moments are unique. Losing them means an opportunity that will never be recovered because time does not fall behind. "Never let the impasses of life disturb you. After all, no one can escape problems, not even saints or wise men. Suffer what you have to suffer. Enjoy what is there to be enjoyed. Consider both suffering and joy as facts of life. "(Buddha)