"There are people who" expect "their dreams to happen ... But there are others who" make "them happen ..." (anonymous)

"There are people who" expect "their dreams to happen ... But there are others who" make "them happen ..." (anonymous)



We do not choose people, we just live our destinies. We choose our attitudes and our destiny is drawn by virtue of them. That is why I have always tried to follow that advice, "surround yourself with people whom you trust and love", because trust is won over several and several conversations, but can be lost by a single word - the disillusion arises in an instant, and will be like the "visit of the truth." Very simplistically, delusion is simply stopping to trust and believe in what one has thought about the "being" of other people. For what it is used to say "no one deceives himself with those he knows, but with those he thinks he knows!" The disappointment is nothing more than the observation of the obvious, and that in our eyes, the curtain of illusion, at certain moments , did not allow us to see. As Dostoevsky said, "an act of trust gives peace and serenity."

In fact I have to admit that over time I try to learn to go back to living one day at a time, not to create expectations about things or people, I acquired more patience and also, less haste to live, always having, at least try that "it is possible to learn good manners to deal with people, but it is not possible to learn to trust people. And you have to trust to be comfortable with them. " (Peter Drucker)

 We do not always give the right weight and importance to what is, in fact, important to us. Every day of our lives is full of events and during all time things happen that we like or dislike, that we attach importance to or not. In reality time passes and we end up realizing that we do not like the person, but the image we made of it without our realizing it.

When we change our attitude from the conscious change of our feelings and thoughts, we begin to create a new reality in our life. Some emotions are not easy to deal with and understand, there are some that are even very difficult to change and "seem to constantly cry out for your presence within us." I know, I fully realize that these things are difficult to speak of I also feel that I am apprehending), in fact, I think that many of us, by a mere cultural question, were taught to ignore all these situations. Many of us forget that not everyone has the same experiences, access or support that we do, which makes sense; because it is difficult to perceive the reality in which many people are living. But, we "have to" look at this if we want things to change. We have to do this if we really want to show ourselves fully to those with whom we talk and with whom we live. And, we have to do if we want to be competent people, informed about the traumas and the much needed support to people. As Florbela Espanca said "Life is always the same for everyone: a network of illusions and disappointments. The picture is unique, the frame is different. "

 When we avoid wanting to "know or live" with the realities of the environment in which we live, our friends, our neighbors, in our social and human community, we miss the opportunity to really see people and distance ourselves from local life in society. Someone recently asked me that maybe I should not be writing about sociopsychological issues, since people read very little today, and they talk even less, to which I replied that for me it becomes clearer with each passing day, that choosing to stay in silence or refraining from addressing these issues (whether in social networks or in real life) means choosing to ignore the very realities with which our friends and acquaintances live or coexist everyday.

 "There are people who wish to know only by knowing, and this is curiosity, others to gain fame, and that is vanity, others to enrich with their science, and this is an awkward business, others to be built, and this it is prudence, others to build up others, and this is charity. " (St. Thomas Aquino)